GETTING OVER THAT SOMEONE
Have you ever just sat there thinking like crazy about that someone you claim to love so much only to drive yourself crazy? These thoughts that you continue to process over and over again just wondering why things are the way they are. Don`t you wish you could just stop thinking so you can stop the hurting deep within?
Well..if you can say yes to those questions, then ask yourself these questions....
Are yousure you`re not just obsessed?
Are you sure you`re not just over attached?
Obsession is bad, attachment is bad.
Don`t get caught up in the fact that it`s all based on feelings. Hell, if it were just based on feelings from the heart then why are you given a brain? Think a little. Step out of that broken hearted situation and really think about it in a third persons perspective. Try see what others see, try to see why things are the way they are. Don`t blind yourself with feelings, use your head and not your heart.
You only have one thing to get you through life, and that`s your brain. Don`t neglect it, don`t misuse it, trust what you think, but think logically.
LOOKING BACK ON THE MEMORIES...
Have you ever come across those days where you just happen to find something that contributed to that special relationship? Be it a CD that was created by him/her for you, or a letter/email, just those physical things to remind you of that relationship you once had. For that short period of time that you`re reminiscing in the past you can often feel the happiness that was there, but once it`s over, like that relationship, it`s over.
I find that if you`re gonna go dig up the past, you`re just setting yourself up for a punch in the heart. Yet you just keep on digging just to remember, cause a good relationship should not be forgotten. As much as it may still hurt, it`s a good reminder that you were once special to someone.
On the other hand, if that relationship was bad, do yourself a favor and toss out all that crap. What`s the point in keeping memories of something that was harmful to you?
Your memories are all you have left of a relationship. No one wants a bad relationship, so why keep the crap around. But the thing that seems to leave the lasting impression usually are the bad memories over the good. It`s funny how the laughs are quickly forgotten and the pain easily reborn.
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